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Thursday, August 5, 2010

An Exciting Week!

It's now the last night of camp and I can tell you they've had an exciting week. Our Eclipse Campers have been enjoying "breakfast" at 11 PM made by the Camp Director himself. All kinds of night time activities to include a late night swim! They stay up late and sleep in until lunch time. And I can imagine that once they start to get their bodies adjusted to their new time schedule how shocking tonight and tomorrow will be for them! They're up at a normal hour tomorrow to prepare for their final activities before greeting families and saying good bye to friends and counselors.

For all campers, they have enjoyed a week filled with creek hiking, playing on the lake, and just enjoying being at camp. Everyone has had a great week!

Somethings to think about as you make the drive home. Make sure, at some point after they've had time explode with wonderful camp stories to tell you, ask them about some of their quieter moments. Those moments that were spent during their devotion times, or the quiet times meant purposely for the kids to think and be still. Ask them about worship and the band. It seems that a recurring theme throughout this summer has been that the worship time has been "awesome". I believe some of the terminology I've heard is "worship rocks!". My own kids came home asking why church couldn't be more like worship. Hmmm. Let's think about that for a moment.

Along with all the "camp" stuff the kids love and enjoy all week long, the goal is to open their eyes and hearts to what God might have in store for them. It's a week of exploring. Exploring camp and exploring their faith. What an exciting week on so many levels!

My prayer is that you have some meaningful conversations with your camper at some point. They probably won't happen right away. They'll probably happen maybe even a week after they've come home. There's a lot for them to process right away. Don't miss the opportunity to do a little exploring of your own! Good luck!

Monday, August 2, 2010

Welcome Fusion & Eclipse Parents!!

Welcome Parents!! Looks like a fantastic week will be in store for your campers this week. A night time themed camp always brings fun activities and adventures! I'm also looking forward to hearing updates about our Fusion Group. Going to camp is always fun, but even more fun with friends and people you know.

This blog is for you, the parents. I am in contact with the camp periodically through the week and travel out there when I can. I check on your campers if you'd like for me to, give you updates to their daily fun, and hopefully give you a little insight to the life at camp. Maybe I can give you some suggestions on what to write to your campers about when you email them.

I am a former Camp Director and now a parent of 4 children. Two of them are old enough now to experience camp. They had a blast, by the way, but it was a totally different experience to sit in the background as a parent and not as a Camp Director with very little control over their activities and overall experience while they were there. And I've even been a pretty laid back parent, but the idea of letting them go to camp by themselves for some reason really threw me for a loop. It was an interesting thing for me.

Anyway, I hope you'll check back with me. I haven't received the schedules for the week yet so I'm not sure how these particular sessions will be different. But, typically the campers start out their first night with a "Counselor Hunt". It's a great way for the kids to get to know all the staff and their roles. Each night they have worship with a fantastic worship band, and a fun activity. Kids missing home seems to have been fairly low this summer. I haven't heard of too many cases, and those who were missing home had counselors and new friends very quickly helping them through it. They all usually have one night they cook out on the fire and "sleep out" somewhere. Rain has not hampered any of their plans or changed any schedules. The kids and counselors have made the best of it all summer so far and had a blast in the rain. However, here's hoping for a week of little to no rain.

Keep coming back. Let me know how you're feeling so far about your kids being at camp. Ask me questions. No question is a silly one and it helps me with the blog. Your comments and feedback throughout the week also helps the staff in their planning for next week. Without parents and their support there wouldn't be a place for your kids to go for an awesome week of playing, exploring, and learning about God in a unique environment such as this.

Thursday, July 29, 2010

Rain Acitivity Report!

I did hear from Ryan, the Camp Director this morning. He said that all is well at Asbury Hills. All activities have gone on as planned. The rain has not dampened the spirits or the normal routine and life at camp. Very impressive, I have to say.

The night they camped outside the groups got pretty wet and returned to get dry, but everyone was fine and happy.

The group who has been on a two week adventure returned this morning also very happy and pleased with themselves. Apparently they woke up the senior staff when they arrived home. There was a bear sighting and the only medical issue was one really good blister. I think I would count that as a successful trip.

If any of you hear stories on the way home or throughout the week, we'd really like to hear them. Many times we don't get to hear the magnitude of the experiences your kids have because they reveal them to you and not always to us. We'd really love to hear what they have to say and your thoughts about it too! This is the kind of feedback we could really use for future planning.

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Rainy Days At Camp?

I don't know what the weather has been like where you are, but here in Charlotte its been pretty rough. I am checking in with the camp to see how their weather has been and how that has affected their plans and activities this week. I will say that I've been very impressed so far with how they have worked around the weather.

Being a part of camp staff, I can say that having a "Plan B", "Plan C", and sometimes a "Plan D" would come in handy. Especially for these rainy days. I've had some really creative staff who have looked at the rainy weather not as a burden but an opportunity for creativity at its best. Canoe trips happening in the dining hall, some of the best skits come out of groups hanging out in a common area, and fantastic conversations happening all around. This staff doesn't seem to be the exception to this. There have been weeks that I've asked specifically if plans have had to change, and it seems as those activities happen as scheduled. One way or another, things happen without fail. Camping under the tarps... in the rain... still happen. Only one group, if I'm remembering correctly, had a tarp not particularly working correctly returned to their cabins for the night. However, they tried to stick it out as long as possible. Don't forget this kind of stuff makes for great memories and fantastic tall tales later!

Some things to share with your kids in your emails and letters:

- a great camping experience you've had either as an adult or as a kid. Or perhaps there's something you've always wanted to do at camp and have never been able to do.

- I encourage parents to also encourage their campers to be open to new experiences at camp and during worship. That you just never know how God may speak to you whether it's through the music, through friends, or devotions times.

- Don't assume your camper may be having a rough time with the weather. Just be encouraging about how much fun it is to play in the rain. If you're worried and it shows, they might become a little apprehensive too. Trust me, they have really great counselors. They're doing everything they can and more to make sure your child is having a great and meaningful time!

As soon as I hear more about what's been going on for sure, I'll let you know!

Monday, July 26, 2010

Welcome & Updates!

Welcome to another week of camp at Camp Asbury Hills! What a great summer we've had so far! We've had some really great feedback from campers and some eye opening experiences for counselors. I think each week, these counselors probably learn just as much from the kids as the kids learn from them. The counselors really have to walk the walk. They're out in front of your kids every day, playing with and teach them both informally in their choices, and formally by using the curriculum and devotions each day. They are the examples our kids will hopefully be able to look back on as a positive role model.

I have some updates for you. Our high school adventurers checked in today and everyone is happy and doing well. They all seem to be enjoying themselves and coping with the heat the best they can. I'm sure water is involved in just about everything they do to maintain their levels of hydration.

Our other campers who are staying at camp this week are also coping with the heat. Although, I will say it doesn't sound like the heat is keeping anyone down! They're enjoying the creek. Ryan, the Camp Director, re-introduced the counselors to creating the natural water slide from the cascades. Just staying cool is the name of the game this week!

If Asbury Hills is a new experience for you, one of the first things your campers do when they arrive is participate as a cabin in making ice cream. You know, the old fashioned, hand cranked kind. In my opinion, this is some of the best tasting ice cream. I remember as a kid doing this every summer and nothing beats it. My kids got to do it this summer at Asbury and LOVED it. Not only does this activity "break the ice", pardon the pun, but starts the process of team work, getting to know one another, and just get acclimated.

The first evening activity is a counselor hunt. The cabins work together as a team to locate all the counselors positioned around camp. This really helps them, again, to work together as a team, get to know each other, and get to know the staff in a fun way. In my opinion, this is a great activity.

Sounds like last week they experimented with different kinds of worship experiences. For instance, they had worship out on the lake and around the pool. In addition to this, of course, they have "regular" worship in their recreation shelter. The worship seems to be a hi-light of the week for the campers. In the majority of the evaluations that come back from the campers this time of their day seems to rank in their top three experiences. It probably wouldn't hurt to mention or ask questions about their experiences in your letters/emails to them.

Keep checking back throughout the week for updates. I try to update daily, however, I've been averaging about every other day. I also typically update at night. If I can answer any questions or check on any particular cabins/campers, let me know. I'd be happy to check on them for you. I'd also love to hear your thoughts about Asbury Hills and your experience with them from a parent's perspective. This is a great opportunity and forum for you to be heard. Don't let it pass the staff at Asbury Hills is always looking for feedback to continue to improve.

Thursday, July 22, 2010

Last Day for Some Campers

So the last day is quickly approaching. Many campers are surprised how fast the week went by. If your a first time parent at Asbury Hills like I was this year, I was pleasantly surprised with how quickly the check out happened. There again, it just seemed to run fairly well. I was especially impressed with the nice "extra" touches the staff provided for the parents and family who arrived to pick up their campers.

As expected the counselors directing traffic were helpful, courteous, and had smiles on their faces. When we parked after grabbing the kids' stuff, we could hear the band playing. I appreciated this because I am still learning my way around the grounds. (I admit that I'm what you might call directionally challenged.) The band playing helped to guide us to the final destination. But before we made it there we stopped at the dining hall for a snow cone! Who would have thought we would have snow cones when we pick up our kids. I felt like I was at camp myself for a few moments getting that little treat. Very nice guys!

When I picked up my kids, I didn't see any tears from any of the departing campers. I only saw smiles and excitement at seeing family and friends after a great week at camp. However, I have heard that there have been tears. Some kids just learn to appreciate camp as this "safe" place. It's a place where everyone can be on an even playing field.

As a former Camp Director its something that I talked a lot about with my staff as well. The idea that we have kids who come from all walks of life coming together at camp. This must be a place where all kids have the opportunity to stretch their wings and grow. If it's done right, all kids just know that this is the place they can say anything and be okay. They can ask those questions they may have thought they couldn't before. And because of this feeling of sanctuary at camp, it can be hard to leave.

Even the most adjusted kid, the kids from the best parents and best homes may experience a little of this "let down" when they come home. Think about when you come home from a vacation. You've been living, perhaps, in a place where your bed gets made the floors get vacuumed, you can go play golf just because you feel like it, and fall asleep whenever you want watching your favorite shows. When you come home and hit the ground running back in your daily grind, don't you feel a little down? The kids may feel a little of the same way. After a week of playing hard, worshiping, and engaging in faith forming activities, it may hit them how different life really is.

This is a good thing though. It means they've been thinking and learning. It means they'll look forward to going back to that sanctuary next year to keep doing those things. Before its all over, our kids will be the leaders of other kids in their faith forming moments. I think that's pretty cool.

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

What a GREAT start to Camp!!

So it sounds like everyone started out the week on a really positive note! Here's what I've heard:

Our high school adventurers were dropped off at their originating site on Sunday and they were very excited. The Camp Director, Ryan, is very confident they are in for an awesome experience! God is just so apparent when you're out in nature, with a new group of friends, having an adventure led by staff with hearts full of God! The opportunities are limitless! I'm hoping the staff will come back from this adventure with a whole lot of "A-ha" moments for themselves and campers.

One of the great things about having so many weeks of camp in a summer, it gives the staff it work, tweak, and really get things to fit with each group. They have taken suggestions and their own experiences and tweaked the elementary experience a little more for this week. The worship band has worked on and are presenting for our elementary campers more younger kid friendly songs with your camper in mind! I think that's really awesome! I have elementary age kids who experienced worship with this particular staff. They absolutely loved it, however, if it's being tweaked, I'm wondering just how much better it would be for them.

They've had counselor hunts, messy games,and field games. Our elementary campers were in tent tonight and cooked out on an open fire. Typical meal probably was a hobo dinner. If you're not familiar with a hobo dinner, it's basically a meat, vegetables, and potatoes wrapped in tin foil. Throw it in the fire, cook for a while, and enjoy. Some of the best meals you will probably ever eat. However, if you as a parent suggested it, your child probably wouldn't eat it. (At least my kids are that way!) However, at camp it's totally different. They try it and they really like it. Hobo dinners are pretty tasty anyway!

For those campers leaving on Friday, tonight was an important night in the worship life of camp. It's the culminating event when it comes to worship experiences. The daily lessons all lead up to this night giving the kids the opportunity to think more thoughtfully about their relationship with Jesus and what it means to them. If they want to really talk with someone about their feelings and thoughts staff members are very available to them. If they just want to sit quietly, that's okay too. A no pressure event, but a poignant one none the less. Very meaningful. It might be something you will want to mention or at least ask about once they've been home for a day or two and had time to process their week.

The recurring theme of most campers having spent a week at camp will tell you that the worship and worship band are pretty awesome. Asbury obviously does worship well. Of course, they're doing all sorts of other really cool stuff that they like as well. My kids just told me today that they were THRILLED to have pancakes with powdered sugar and waffles with whipped cream. Thank you Asbury Hills for spoiling my children with food treats they don't usually get at home! What a treat for them and something to look forward to for next summer! LOL!

Monday, July 19, 2010

Welcome Drenched, Core, & Exodus Camper Parents!

Wow! The summer is really flying by and it looks like another full week of camp! Welcome Parents! I hope you are looking forward to a week of looking for your campers on the pictures that will be posted each day. I also hope your kids were incredibly excited about their week (or two weeks) at camp.

As I looked through the schedule of who was expected at camp for this week, I was surprised to see the senior high group who would be spending 2 whole weeks doing some pretty major canoeing and hiking. They're in for a fantastic adventure! I can't wait to hear updates to their journey.

This blog is for you the parents. I try to blog every night and give any updates I hear from camp. I let you know what's coming up in the daily schedule to help give you an idea about the daily life your camper is experiencing while he or she is there. I'm interested in hearing your thoughts, concerns, and praises for your kids experiences. I work to answer any questions you may have, address any concerns you've had on your mind, and just listen to your experiences. I also will try to give suggestions for things to write your camper about in case you're looking for ideas.

If there's anything I can do to help your week go by any smoother than it already will, don't hesitate to let me know! Until later, enjoy your week, keep watching for pictures, and check back to see what's going on at camp each day!

Friday, July 16, 2010

Will This Be YOUR Camper?

As your camper's week has ended or will be ending soon, it might be helpful to know some of the possible experiences they may have had. The following are just some notes about campers of previous weeks. I find it helpful as a parent, as a person who works in youth ministry, and just as someone who works with kids on different levels. It's helpful as a tool in conversation with your child. Maybe your child will have had a similar experience and it will give you something to help relate to as they are talking.

Many of the campers feel that worship is one of their favorite times. They like the freedom to worship in a way that feels good to them. They can dance, they can chant, they can yell out as the counselors lead and not feel out of place. It's "their" worship, not ours. It gives them a new view of God or maybe just different. It helps them have a chance to express themselves, think about things, and maybe make decisions that can affect the rest of their lives.

Last week Pastor Andy had 4-5 kids approach him and want to talk with him about what it means to have Jesus in their lives and hearts. Wow. One week of experiencing God in new and different ways. Some kids feel so safe and affected by the environment at camp they are brought to tears when its time to go home. Enough to tug at the hearts of the staff.

Maybe your child was the camper who started to think more. They were the camper who started to ask their counselor what they needed to be thinking about each day. Looking for those "God Moments" as they went about their day.

Or perhaps, your child will come home just a little different. Maybe a bit changed. A little bit more thoughtful. Maybe more interested in what the Pastor has to say on Sunday mornings. Hopefully the change will include being more open with you as their parent. Wanting to know more about your faith journey and experiences.

Camp is an amazing place for a kid. Anything is possible. Are you ready to see God in a different way yourself? Just take a moment to really listen to what your camper is saying on the way home. They experienced God all week even during the fun "camp" stuff. Just listen. You might find yourself changed a little too.

Wednesday, July 14, 2010

Quick Update

Just got word from camp and couldn't wait until tonight to post. Sounds like everything is going very well, as expected.

Trillium Cabin is having a great time hanging out together and are getting along quite well. Taking a general vote from all in that cabin, their favorite things this week have been #1 Creek Hiking, #2 Hiking Moonshine, & #3 Experiencing the Low Ropes Course.

Even if your camper is not in Trillium Cabin specifically I know from my visits, evaluations, and my own kids that creek hiking is pretty popular. While I was there I not too long ago my daughter and I took our shoes off and just stood on the rocks in the creek. The water is just so cool! It feels really good. It's not surprising how it could be a favorite activity especially on hot days.

They have gotten some rain but all plans have continued forward. They slept under tarps. The counselors had some extra training a week or so ago on building their tarp site in a way that would protect everyone from the elements a little better. It seems as though the extra training paid off! Everyone has stayed dry, happy, and are having fun!

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Catch up on this week!

Let me start with a quick welcome to our Elementary Core Camp families who joined us just yesterday according to the schedules! I hope that you will continue to check the blog to see what your campers are up to this week. My goal is to blog every evening with updates to the day and give everyone an idea as to what's on the schedule. Hopefully you will find it a useful tool to go along with the pictures you're viewing on Bunk 1.

With that said, I wanted to apologize for being out of commission the last couple of days. My husband is a Pastor and our church started VBS this week. My youngest child also came down with an ear infection that I've had to work with. Things like this always make life interesting, of course, but also leaves little time sometimes for extra things. But I'm back and ready to catch you up on what's been happening this week so far.

I haven't heard any specific updates about what certain cabins I'm checking in with yet. I'm thinking they might be a little slammed by the weather. It has rained pretty hard here in Charlotte the past couple days. And when you're at camp things can be a little crazier when it rains. Not that the rains squelches any of the fun mind you, but it just means the counselors get to really let their creative juices flow even more!

All of a sudden those camp outs may not be the sleeping out in tents you might have originally planned. One summer, I had a counselor who was supposed to facilitate a canoe trip and camp out. The weather just didn't cooperate all week, so in order to not let her campers down the next thing I knew we had a canoe in the dining hall and her girls were all paddling their hearts out, just laughing away. They had a tent pitched and were practicing fire building techniques in the fire place. So, as you can see, a well trained counselor can use the weather to their advantage and really make things even more fun. These are the things that memories are made of!

As soon as I hear, I will definitely update you as to how the kids and counselors are all doing.

The past couple of days have found our Jr. High Core Campers choosing their afternoon recreational activities which can range from tree climbing and creek hiking, to using the new GPS systems to find their way around camp or maybe checking out the new Canopy Tour. Their evening activities have consisted of a "Counselor Hunt", which by the way, I think is a FANTASTIC idea! I really wish I had thought to do something like this when I was a Camp Director. What a great way to meet all the counselors and learn their roles! Last night the played field games and Wednesday Night, according to the schedule they'll be sleeping in the tents.

Our Sr. High Campers have enjoyed the Counselor Hunt also. On Monday night they were at the pool for some pool games, after all, they're supposed to be "drenched" this week, and Wednesday they're packing out their lunches and going on a day trip. Looks like they also were cooking their dinner out tonight. I'm kind of curious to know what all they cook out on the fire. My kids got to experience the Hobo Dinners and thought they were fantastic. I think it's something about camp and having someone else introduce them to it. Had it been me, I'm afraid they never would have tried it! Kids are funny that way!

The Elementary Core Campers have enjoyed pretty much all of the same activities our other two groups have with the exception of Pool Games. I'm sure that'll be coming later in the week. I have noticed that the staff is very intentional about doing activities centered around water and keeping the kids cool during these hot summer days. It's been pretty stifling and there has always been some kind of water activity happening. Tomorrow the Elementary campers get to participate in "Messy Games" as their evening program. I can imagine this might be the hi light of the week for some of the kids! What kids doesn't like to be silly and just get messy??

Hopefully I'll hear soon how the weather has been and have a few more specific details for you tomorrow. In the meantime if there's anything specific you'd like to know, ask me. I'll find out for you!

Sunday, July 11, 2010

Welcome to the week!

Greetings Parents! Are you ready for a week at home without your camper or campers? This week at Asbury Hills appears to be a little different. Jr. & Sr. High Campers have arrived today as I'm sure you're aware. Elementary age campers will be arriving later in the week to join the fun!

My role is serve as a middle person, so to speak. To give you an idea of what's going on throughout the week. I visit the camp periodically through the week just to watch, talk to the kids, and talk to the counselors. It's been an interesting summer so far to watch camp happen from this perspective. I'm used to the person planning, running, playing, and making sure everything is running smoothly. Sitting on the sidelines and just watching is something I'm not accustomed to doing. I'm really enjoying watching the whole process unfold with different eyes.

I have four kids of my own. Two of them just finished a week at camp and had a total BLAST!! In fact, my daughter didn't stop talking for the whole 2 hour ride home. My son started talking around 7 PM that night and didn't stop until he finally fell asleep. They had a lot of fun and are ready to go back. I found myself wistfully remembering the quiet while they were gone!

I will be receiving the schedules of each of the groups at camp for the week and will share with you what they're up to. My hope is that you will use this blog to ease any concerns, ask any questions, and brainstorm any ideas you have to help make camp a better experience for you as a parent and your kids.

I really appreciate any feedback you might have to share with me. Tell me about your check in experience. Let me know if you get any letters from your kids during the week and let me know what they have to say. If you'd like for me to very discreetly check in on your kids while I'm at camp I'd be happy to do that as well.

Have a great week! Check back each day for a new update!

Friday, July 9, 2010

Final Full Day

Well, today was the last full day of camp. It's been a long week, yet strangely short all at the same time. It looks as though the kids have spent a lot of time in the creek in an area they call "the bathtub" staying cool and having fun!

With the week ending the kids will be asked to fill out an evaluation of their week. I don't know what the evaluation looks like exactly, I can only go off of my own experience with these things. Our evaluations were pretty basic. We asked questions about the food, their favorite things, their least favorite things, and suggestions for what they'd like to see next year. We also gave them the opportunity to say anything else they wanted to say. There is a section where the kids can evaluate their counselors as well. It's a fantastic way to give the kids their own voice regarding their camp experience.

I wanted to share with you some of the answers of previous weeks to give you an idea what your camper might be saying. Who knows, it might also give you some things to ask them about if they find themselves at a loss of words on the way home. (Do we REALLY think that will happen???)

What did you learn about God…

That God’s love is forever and he will never give up
I am marked by his love
I can serve him by hospitality speech + my Gifts
I learned that God puts people in your life for a reason. I may not know who but when I look back in the future I can find out.

In the Future:

This week I confirmed that God loves me no mater what
That I will live by love and service
I trusted in him more
To strength my faith + pour myself out
Whenever I come to camp, I feel refreshed with my relationship with God
To become more involved in church


Evals about camp / staff….

It was my favorite year because Lily and Brittany are the best counselors
This has been the best year. We had fun and did lots of activities but still had some down / chill time
(the staff) They were very encourageing, funny & fun. They really did help me grow in my faith. They were good leaders
They were so fun and let us have a say in what we did, also made it not-awkward the 1st day
I love Morgan and Sarah! They were so nice and awesome!
1 (best experience) made new friends and had a blast!


As a parent, you also will have the opportunity to evaluate your experience with Asbury Hills. Please take a moment and fill it out. It's important to give your feed back so that we can continue to grow, and improve. We can't read minds, so please share yours with us!

I hope this blog has been a useful tool for you this week. As I get feedback from the week I will post it as well. If any stories come out about campers I will share them with you. Who knows, you might hear about your camper. Come back and check it out!

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

Some Camper Feedback

I have to admit, I'm having a hard time deciding what to write abat out tonight. There are just so many things going on and I'm not sure what kind of information might be helpful for you to read about. If you're checking out the blog, I'm assuming you're taking a look at the pictures. I've been checking a couple times a day myself just see if more have appeared and what everyone's up to. I'm seeing lots of smiles, staff interacting with kids, and just lots and lots of active activities. It's exactly what you might expect to see at camp.

I'm hoping to see some pictures of worship. That seems to be one of the things the kids will talk about the most when asked what they like the most. Of course, they love the other activities, but don't you find it interesting that when asked, many of them will mention the band and worship time as one of their favorite things to do? Makes me wonder... What can we do when the kids get home to keep them interested in "worship" and getting something out of it. I know our church isn't the most vibrant when it comes to worship experiences for kids and young people. We're trying to work on it, but it's not easy. I don't think we're alone in that. Why should the kids have vibrant experiences that speak to them only once a year?

I've seen their worship space and it's a pretty decent space. It has nice benches for the kids to sit on, the band itself sounds pretty good, and guys in the band seem very genuine in their love of God. Sometimes just seeing the authentic love and enjoyment of worship can affect how those we're leading to be more open to the message.

I love the way we do worship at camp. Each day has a theme. The themes build on each other and the messages do the same. The big night at camp now happens a couple nights before the last night now instead of waiting. The reason for this is to give kids the opportunity to make decisions or just let the teachings sink in. It gives them something to think about. And then on the very last night after worship they have a dance party just to celebrate! They celebrate lessons learned, decisions made, or just the idea of processing the things they've heard. They celebrate friendships made and the hope of friendships continued. It's a great release of energy one last time before they go home. It's a way to end camp on a fantastic "high note" instead of pure, raw emotion. I tend to appreciate that. It's how memories are made.

As the campers get ready for their most meaningful time of worship at camp, please consider writing to them about a meaningful worship experience you've had. I know I've said it before, but it's because I think it's just so important. Kids pick up on so much more than we ever give them credit for. It's so important for them to see us as their parents, caregivers, friends, and family as people of faith. That our faith journey and experiences are important to us as well. That we may worship differently, find meaningful experiences in different ways, but the journey is the same. The journey is to see and experience God in the people and places around us. That we can see His love and share His love together. Help these kids see and understand it's together that all this and more can be accomplished. Be a part of their continued journey when they come home.

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

Have you checked out the pictures yet? Looks like everyone had a great first full day at camp! Core Camp boys got to hang out in the creek to stay cool for good part of the day and from what I understand they also made it to the lake. The girls from core also made it to the lake to give the canoes and kayaks a try. I have to admit I was pretty proud of my daughter for getting in the canoe. It was one of her biggest fears about going to camp and I noticed that she actually got into a canoe. Looks like a counselor was in there with her, but she got in!

I think, for me, one of the things about my kids going to camp is the idea that they will try to do things they haven't done before. Or maybe, just challenge themselves. Have you noticed how much better our kids do when we're not around? They tend to be more open to trying new things, are able to talk about more things, and in general show us that they can truly function just fine without us hovering.

The difference between younger and older campers is also interesting. The younger campers are just so excited to be at camp. They just soak it all in and LOVE everything. The worship is new. The entire environment is just one to behold. The older campers, our Middle School and High School kids, many of them have done this before. They're now here more by choice rather than a parent just signing them up because we know how good of an opportunity it is for them. They're ready to learn and grow and have conversations. Devotions, reflection time, and teaching times can be more interesting and in depth. I'll have to ask more specifically how our older campers are doing this week in this area and fill you in on that as well.

Last night the evening activity was a Counselor Hunt. I love this idea. Wish we had done this when I was a Camp Director! What a GREAT way to get these campers working together, bonding, and figuring out exactly who all the counselors are and what they do at camp. Very impressive. Jr. High Altitude Campers had what they called an "Amazing Show Place Race". Tonight, they had field games. Should make for some good pictures for tomorrow.

Here's what's coming up tomorrow:

Jr. High Altitude will be heading out to Brevard Rock Gym and will be camping "out"

Core Camp will also be out in tents tomorrow night and will get to play Amazing Race for their evening activities. Wonder how close they make this activity to the show!

Hopefully this gives you some things to email your kids about in addition to what you've seen in the pictures. I've suggested in other blogs to write to your kids about worship experiences. The worship they have at camp is totally different than what they experience at church. Even those of you who have worship bands, it's still different. Maybe because it's at camp vs. being in a "church building". Maybe it's the lack of "parents". I don't know, but it's different. It can be powerful and eye opening. Encourage your kids to be open to God and the things they may learn while they're there. Suggest they try and remember things to tell you about their experience if they feel comfortable doing that. Those that have an eye opening experience may have questions for you. They need to have someone they can keep figuring things out with. Wouldn't it be cool if it were you they talked to about it? Go ahead and lay the ground work in your emails that you're interested in what's happening while they're at camp.

What kinds of things are you seeing in the pictures that you're glad to see? Are there any other things you'd like to see the kids doing that you haven't seen yet? Let me know what you'd like to hear about or see. Maybe I can help you out!

Monday, July 5, 2010

Check In Today 7/5/2010

Well, they're all checked in!

Check in process was actually a lot less painful than I expected. I've experienced a few different models of check in and by far this model seemed to work pretty well. I have to admit I was impressed. It seems to work for this facility. We were in the last group scheduled to arrive and we were in and out very quickly.

I felt a little unsure of what to do exactly because there wasn't much for us to do anyway. We just rolled out the sleeping bags & pillows, slid the suitcases under the bed and the kids practically shoved us out the door. I didn't even have time to really think about being emotional. I think that was a good thing! I was totally expecting to hang out for a few extra minutes, but it was pretty obvious from my children they were fine, excited, and were ready for us to LEAVE! Pretty funny actually.

The counselors did a pretty good job greeting all the campers as they came in. By the time we got there, my daughter's cabin was incredibly full of people. In fact, I think we were the last ones to arrive and it was a little hectic in the cabin. As we helped get her settled, I was impressed that one of the counselors made a point to lean over one of the bottom bunks and completely ignored me and introduced herself to Emma. Excellent job! I'm not the important one, Emma is.

In the boys cabin it went just about as well. My son, had been harassing us all morning about the time and wishing he could get to camp by about 6:30 this morning. When we finally arrived, he hardly greeted his counselors he was just so focused on getting into the cabin and getting settled. One of his counselors walked in with us and greeted us. He also was already interacting with the boys in the cabin. Very nice to see. Pretty comforting as well.

I think the only thing that would have made us feel a little more comfortable was to see more name tags on the counselors. We saw them on the check in staff but not on the cabin staff members. We had their names on the blue cards, but weren't completely sure who was who until they introduced themselves. Not a huge deal, but just would have been nice.

So now, we're home after a stop on the way home to enjoy a movie (a rare treat for us) and the house is awfully quiet. I'm looking forward to getting a schedule to see how their week is going to progress and share that with you. I'm also looking forward to checking out their first days pictures.

I would love to hear how your check in experiences went today! Let me know what you were thinking, feeling as you dropped your kids off.

Sunday, July 4, 2010

Getting Ready to Go To Camp!

So it's about 11:15PM and I'm still up trying to get my two ready for camp in the morning. For my son, Nathan, this will be his first resident camp experience. My daughter went to Girl Scout camps a few years back and had a great time but hasn't been back since due to a fear of getting into canoes. But she thinks she's ready to face that fear now. They both wanted to help pack their bags, which I think is a very important thing, but would be so much faster if I could just do it on my own.

I'm almost done. I'm just finishing up that last little bit of laundry... like socks... that need to go into the suitcase. I've made a list of all the things I need to remember to pack at the last minute for them. I've run down the check list with them:

1. Please hang your towels up to dry after pool/lake/shower time. One towel is for pool and one towel is for showering. Please don't use your shower towel for the lake or pool. (Although I totally know my son at least probably will.)

2. Please put your dirty clothes IN the dirty clothes bag, or at least your suit case when you're done wearing them so they're not just laying around and get mixed up with other campers clothes. (Yeah, right! Have you EVER walked into a cabin that boys have been living in for even a day? But I figure I have to try... right?)

3. Please take a shower every day. You are going to be hot and sweaty. And it's probably not a good choice to wear the same clothes every day. We packed plenty for you to wear a different shirt at least every day.

4. Please be careful spending your money at the store. Don't forget if you want to get a treat you have to have money left over.

My kids were so good! They very patiently listened to all my requests and then some. They didn't even roll their eyes at me. Yes, it's safe to say... I've become a little neurotic. Even me, a former Camp Director. But now it's MY kids we're talking about! And I have pretty much NO CONTROL over their experience!

I have utmost confidence in the staff at Asbury Hills. I even got to speak with them on behalf of myself and any other neurotic parents out there as a parent, former Camp Director, and former Youth Director person. I also get to visit and just watch.. then blog. It's been great. But now it's my turn to send two of my kids to them and put them to the real test!

I hope that if you're reading this, you'll contribute to the blogs this week. Who knows, your kid may be in my kid's cabin! I have a boy and girl going to Core Camp this week. I will be watching the picture come up just like the rest of you this week. I'm anxious for them to not only have a great time, but for them to discover a little something about their faith journey as well. Being Pastor's kids they get hit with this stuff by default every day. They hear us talking about it, have to participate in all the activities, but we've always been very careful to attempt to teach them as any other parent would. We want them to discover for themselves but have the tools readily available. We answer questions, guide, and watch but in the end they are making their own discoveries. I can't wait for them to experience God like this, surrounded by other kids on the same journey. With counselors there to be a part of it instead of their parents. To worship in a way they haven't really experienced before. This isn't like "church". I know they're in for quite a ride this week!

So, as I'm up until the wee hours of the morning getting them and myself prepared for departure tomorrow, my prayer is that all of you fellow parents are also excited for your campers. I don't think I will be visiting camp this week (mostly by choice) to spare my kids from having me interrupt their experience. But I'll be checking in by other means. If I can help check in for you as well, let me know. If I can answer any questions, don't hesitate to ask! This blog is meant for all of us as one more mode of communication with parents and with the camp. Take advantage of it!

Thursday, July 1, 2010

Are you ever going to hear about it!

I live in Charlotte. The past couple days the rain quite literally DUMPED on us here. In fact, so much so we had a few serious examples of flash flooding. It made me wonder how the weather was doing at camp. It took a couple days but I did hear that they also got rained on pretty hard!

Of course, the rain came on the night of the great camp out! When else would it rain? It seems that God had a sense of humor and brought a whole new appreciation for His creation. I think everyone learned some pretty important lessons about how to use their tarps in the most effective way possible that night. Most campers were pretty soaked and found their sleeping bags were pretty wet. Some even returned to their cabins that night instead of waiting it out.

Have no fear, everyone is perfectly fine! It wouldn't surprise me at all if they've been making inside jokes about it for the last half of their week! These are the kinds of things that great stories are made of. Maybe even legends! I'm over-exaggerating... maybe a little... but I can pretty much guarantee that you'll be hearing about this one on the way home!

Tuesday, June 29, 2010

Getting Ready for Wednesday!

Like I said yesterday, today is a big day around camp. There's been some pretty big exploring going on from the Altitude Group and the Jr. High Core Group WILL be sleeping in tents tonight! Having lived up in the mountains of North Carolina myself for awhile, it definitely feels a lot cooler in the evenings, but it can still be pretty warm. Hopefully the kids and counselors will experience enough of a break in the evening to enjoy sleeping outside with the sounds of the frogs and bugs around them.

My background in camping ministry started with Girl Scout camp in platform tents. As I got older and became a counselor I completely appreciated the sounds of nature around me. I used to roll all the sides up to my tent stretch out under my mosquito net and just listen to the frogs all night. What a great way to spend the night. I hope the kids will find some enjoyment in God's creation tonight too.

Tomorrow night will be the big night in the worship life of the church. In past years, the model for evening worship is to build up to a big night on Thursday night. All the lessons, all the worship, all the devotions and teachings lead to giving the kids the opportunity to make any kind of life changing decisions they may want to make. It's also a time for reflecting on their week at camp. Some kids may not be ready to make any big decisions, and that's okay. But it's just an opportunity to reflect, pray with their counselors and Senior staff if they want. The kids would then be sent home the next day hopefully to be followed up with by their Pastor or Youth Pastor from their home church.

Now, the culminating event takes place on Wednesday. This is strategically done this way so the kids can have this experience and then celebrate it during the remaining days with their friends and counselors. It gives them a chance to process their evening and their worship experience. Instead of going home after a meaningful night and then thinking through their week and how God has been working in their lives before, during, and after camp, they now get to begin working through that a little bit before hand. Hopefully give them the tools to talk to you about it one the way home, or their Youth Director if they wanted to.

I always loved this night, because I found it interesting to watch the kids' faces. Some really felt God moving in their hearts. Others looked very shy, but curious. Some just wanted the worship time to be over. However, even those who were antsy to get back to their cabins were still interested in what was going on around them. And most of them were full of questions when they got back to their cabins. And their questions were not silly, but very thoughtful and engaging.

If you have a moment, shoot your camper a quick email tomorrow. Tell them about a worship experience that has been meaningful for you. Or perhaps you have seen God moving in their life in a certain way that you've always wanted to share with them, but didn't know how or felt like you couldn't. Don't hesitate to verbalize with your child what having a relationship with God can mean for them and what it's meant for you. Maybe it will help them be a little more thoughtful during their worship and/or reflection times. Kids find it pretty awesome when mom and dad or grandparents share something that is meaningful and special to them like that. You might be surprised what kind of conversations will open up for you!

Monday, June 28, 2010

Greetings Altitude and Jr. High Core Parents & Families!

Greetings to the parents of Altitude and Jr. High Core Campers! I am hoping that everyone had a smooth check in experience yesterday and is looking forward to seeing pictures of their campers on the website. I think your campers are in for a great week at Asbury Hills. If I can answer any questions, help check on your camper, or do anything to help your experience as a parent getting used to a week without children please let me know. That's why we're here! My children will be going for their week of camp next week and are more than thrilled about leaving their parents and siblings behind for a week!

According to the schedules, Tuesday is going to be a big night at Asbury Hills. The Altitude campers will be exploring Dupont State Forest for an exploration of high places and waterfalls. And in general, it's going to be a big camp out night. Hopefully you'll see some really great pictures.

If any of you have gone to camp as a kid you can certainly remember how important mail time is in the day of a camper. It hasn't changed. Take advantage of the emailing system they have. It's so easy just to go on line and send them an email. It's delivered to your camper the same way mail would. Keep in mind, however, not to make the letter too "mushy". It's been my experience as one of the people who gets to see the most homesick campers, that mail time is also a key time that kids start to feel a little sad for home. Make sure your messages to them are always up beat, tell them funny stories about their pets or siblings. Tell them you miss them but don't make it sound like you're pining for them to come home. It's amazing the responsibility kids take on themselves. If your child tends to get homesick, this might be a great excuse for them to feel they need to go home. "My parents need me." Also, on the crazy chance that their is a very serious, sad thing that happens while they're gone, i.e. a pet dies, or someone in the family get hurt pretty badly, if you want your camper to stay at camp, please don't tell them these kinds of things in your letters. This also will lead to some panic. Call the camp office if something like this happens and talk to the Camp Director. They can then personally relay any information the two of you decided appropriate.

Hopefully you find some of this info helpful. Let me know if you have any questions I can answer. I attempt to visit camp each week to give updates on the activities I observe going on in addition to blogging throughout the week.

Share your experiences here! I'd love to hear them!

Thursday, June 24, 2010

My Visit to Camp Thursday 6/24/10

I went and visited Asbury Hills today. It was a SUPER hot day! It seemed as if it was anything we could all do to just stay cool and hydrated. In fact many afternoon plans were starting to be changed to include water activities just to try and stay as cool as possible.

I brought my daughter with me today. She was anxious just for a look around as this will be her first summer at camp. It was fun walking around with her. We first watched a group of "Express" Campers climb the climbing tree. We watched them all get fitted for harnesses and began to watch them attempt to climb the 40 ft climb to the top of the tree. One actually made it to the top. Their counselors were very good about encouraging them when they started to struggle and when they made it to the top. Very important I think.

We hiked over to the lake and got there just in time for the Fusion Girls to be observing some interesting wildlife in the lake and finish up canoeing for the day. These girls were a lot of fun. They were really the only group that actually initiated having a conversation with us. They were pretty intrigued by my daughter. She small for her age and they were amazed she was going into the 5th grade and really encouraged her about camp. They kept telling her she was going to have an amazing time. Emma felt like she made some friends without even trying.

I did ask the girls what they had liked the best so far, and the majority of them honestly said they enjoyed the worship hands down. I believe their response was "The Band Rocks!" Of course, the band is comprised of all boys. That might have something to do with it.... However, kidding aside, I also got to hear the band rehearsing and they ARE pretty good!

I didn't find out what "banana slug" is. Hopefully I'll learn what that is before the end of the summer. And perhaps you'd be interested to know the hottest items being sold at the Camp Store are mood rings. Random fun fact, I know, but never the less, don't be surprised if you're camper comes home with one!

After tomorrow I'll have some more feedback straight from the counselors about their week with your campers and their experiences. Come back and take a look. You might see your camper mentioned.

If you get a moment, I would love to hear the stories you hear on the way home tomorrow. You'll probably not mutter a single word for your entire trip home unless your camper passes out in the car, and we'd love to hear what they had to share with you.

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Stories from Express Camp

As promised, I have a report for you coming out of the first "Express Camp" that just ended yesterday. I think even the current Express Campers families will appreciate hearing these experiences as a look into the journey their campers are embarking on starting today!

Katie, one of the counselors, Katie was leading a discussion on finding and seeing examples of God's Love in their surroundings and experiences. One particular camper just wasn't sure she could understand how to do that. Apparently, this one girl had an "A-Ha!" moment. She just kind of "got it". And then started to talk about and point out all the ways she was seeing God's love around her. It's funny when things like this happen, because many times as meaningful as it is for the person it's happening to, it's that much more exciting and meaningful for the counselor/teacher. The counselors watched the authenticity of this camper and were touched. This was clearly not an example of a camper repeating "words", but truly experiencing God and His love. How powerful!

Some other side notes that came out of the first Express camp:

Things they learned or did for the first time at camp:
Banana Slugs (I don't have a clue! Ask your campers!)
Playing in the Creek
Zipline
And learning that God loves everyone no matter what!

If all this was accomplished in just 3 days imagine what a whole week of camp must be like!

I am venturing to camp tomorrow (Thursday) to check some things out. Perhaps I'll discover more about this Banana Slugs! I'll let you know.

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

Redefining "Cool"

I've been watching the schedules for this week and I have to say that I'm excited by some of the language they use to describe what's going on. For instance, before lunch they will have what's called a "Jam Fest" on the porch. During staff training I think I got to witness a little bit of this time.

Basically, they gather on the porch before lunch and sing together. The counselors lead all kinds of different songs to help pass the time while the helpers are finishing up getting the tables ready and the kitchen gives the cue that the doors can open. The songs I witness were of the silly nature. Now, I don't care how old or young the camper is, this can be such a fun part of camp. It's one more way the counselors can cut loose and really show the campers that this is not about looking "cool". It's about just having fun together, plain and simple.

To the campers the counselors are the coolest people on the planet. And to watch them be silly and not care really sets the tone that camp is a safe place to be. It's a place that kids can be who they are without fear of being judged and made fun of. Hopefully they learn pretty quickly that if they have any worries from the outside world, they can forget about them at least for this week. All campers are on equal ground around here.

The counselors are trained to be present in your camper's life this week. They're trained to be there for the fun and silly times and also to be aware and present during those serious moments of discovering God's plan in their lives. I don't think my kids are going to know what hit them. This will be their first Christian camping experience and the discovery time that will be available to them will be mind blowing I think. To hear the faith journeys of their counselors, to experience along side other campers that are like them and not like them, is a powerful moment for all involved. Camp is such a special place to discover a new image of God. The image that's not seen as much sitting in the pews at church.

These counselors will redefine for your camp what "cool" is really all about. Sometimes being a Christian kid is hard. To hear all those lessons in Sunday School, at church, or even from you and putting it into practice isn't always easy for any age. But for the campers to see the coolest people ever sharing their faith and putting their faith into action can have a phenomenal effect on a young person. Suddenly it can be a cool thing to enjoy learning about the person God wants you to be and acting on it.

As you're writing to your camper during their time this week, it might be interesting for them to hear about any camping experiences that you have had. Friends you made, counselors that made an impact on you, or maybe even an experience you always wished you had. Your camper may decide to give your dream a try and then share it with you when they see you. What a great conversation piece for the ride home!

Sunday, June 20, 2010

Welcome Express & Fusion Parents!

Greetings! If you're reading this blog, it means you have a camper at Asbury Hills this week! How exciting! My name is Carroll and I am a former Camp Director and parent of 4 kids. The basic idea of this blog is to act as a support for you, the parent. It's a forum for you to check in with what's going on while your child is at camp. I will be blogging periodically through the week with updates on how things are going at camp. If I can answer any questions for you or be of any help to you during your week please feel free to respond to any of the entries, ask questions, and let me know if I can be of service to you.

I hope check in went smoothly today and you helped get your child settled in. I would love to hear about how excited your child was to be going to camp. Two of my children will be attending camp this year. In fact, they're going in a couple of weeks. They are very excited and can hardly wait. They're anxious to try out all the "stuff" there is to do at camp!

Being able to visit camp and write about what's going on has definitely helped my anxiety about letting them go. The irony is certainly not lost on me that as a former Camp Director, the one who very carefully trained camp staff, and comforted campers, I am now on the other side of things and worrying about sending my kids off to camp. I know they'll be fine and have a blast, but I also know that I will be checking pictures daily to make sure they're smiling and look happy.

I hope that this can be a resource for you. As the week concludes, I will also be sharing counselor stories about your children and their experiences through the week. Definitely keep checking during the week and don't forget to check back when the week is over as well!

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

Week One..

I chose Tuesday of this week to visit Asbury Hills and decided to bring my son with me. About one hour into the trip to camp I received a phone call explaining that as we were talking on the phone, the campers were all dispersing for their hikes and off grounds field trip. Obviously, it wasn't the best timing for a trip to check in on the kids and staff. However, I decided to keep heading that direction to let my son see the grounds and see what he thought.

It was interesting to watch his excitement grow as he heard about all the cool "stuff" he could possibly do while he was at camp. He was full of questions about "when", "how old do I have to be?", and "why?". When we arrived and was able to ask all those questions he chose to basically soak it all in at first. He explored the cabins and just took everything in.

We got to eat lunch with the Program Staff who were left behind. We sat with the Program Director, Caroline, the Recreation Director, Brian, and three band members. They were such a delight. My 8 year old son thought the band guys were "cool", and he later, with a little encouragement from the Camp Director himself, felt like he could sneak up on Caroline and sabotage her with a water gun! Needless to say this staff seems to be fantastic with kids. Isn't it great when people who work with kids actually LIKE kids?

It sounded as if they had a great start to camp. Check in seemed to run smoothly. And, I have a feeling that you should be hearing a lot of fantastic stories about a hike to the falls and group games after supper.

We were able to have a brief brainstorming session on how to make this blog more informational and more useful to you, the parent and family of the campers. One idea we had was to share with you the "stories" the counselors share at the end of the week. Each week the counselors share those special experiences they have with their campers. Perhaps there was a camper who made a life changing decision, or maybe a camper who was nervous to try something finally decided to give it a try the last day of camp. Those are the kinds of things that reinforce our calling into camping ministry. We want to share those with you. This means that you need to check back in with the blog even after your camper leaves for the week. There just might be a story about someone you just might know.

In the meantime, your input is always appreciated. Please let me know what kinds of things you'd like to know about. Is there an activity you're wondering if your kid is getting to do? Is there a question you're just wanting to get answered? Or better yet, you have a suggestion for the camp, staff, or me to make this entire experience better for you. We'd love to hear it.

Saturday, June 12, 2010

Staff Training

I was invited last week to come to Staff Training and share some of my views with the staff. I want to share with you some of my first impressions of them. First, as I walked up to porch of the Dining Hall with Jody, a group of the counselors were sitting in a circle under an awning. They were all smiling, relaxed with one another, and laughing! They were somewhat humored that one of the Counselors was singing a song at the top of his lungs in a semi silly fashion not even realizing that a visitor was approaching let alone the Executive Director. They continued to let him sing while we stood silently by watching, trying not to interrupt him. At one point he finally opened his eyes and lifted his sunglasses to see Jody watching him. Of course, he jumped in surprise, laughed a little, and then continued.

This is an example of how at ease these college students are with their surroundings, each other, and what they will be expected to do while at camp this summer. Their morale is high, their excitement is high, and they're ready to play! What a great first impression.

While I was speaking with them and giving them a parent's perspective on sending their kids off to camp, almost all of the staff looked at me the entire time! They listened, smiled, and gave a lot of non verbal feedback that was great! If you've ever had to speak to a group of people, then you know how hard it is to stand and talk to a group who is half asleep and wondering why the heck you're talking to them in the first place. It was honestly a little disconcerting how intently they listened. I found myself wondering why they were looking at me!

I have to say that I didn't expect a whole lot of feedback based on what I was talking to them about. However, I think some of them probably will think about things a little differently when you drop your children off with them. I found myself feeling very reassured that my kids were going to have a blast with the staff this summer. I even found myself looking at each one wondering which one would be my kid's counselor.

The diversity, the positive attitude, the optimism they feel about their calling to serve God this summer is very apparent. I saw nothing but smiles and interest in each other and anyone who walked through the door. My first impressions of this staff were pretty high. I'm anxious to hear from the rest of you what your first impressions are tomorrow after you check in and meet your kids' counselors for the first week of camp!

Thursday, June 10, 2010

Introduction & Welcome to the Blog!

Greetings! My name is Carroll. I am a former Camp Director. Not only am I former Camp Director, but I am also a mother of 4 young children. Emma, who is 10, Nathan, who is 8, Josh is 6, and Cooper is 4. My two oldest have decided they want to go to camp this year. We chose Camp Asbury Hills because the Executive Director , Jody Oates, and I have worked together in the past and I trust him. Trusting Jody is a very important part of why I am here blogging today. You would think that as a former Camp Director, I would not have any problems letting my kids go to camp. I shouldn’t be worried about them having a good time. I shouldn’t be worried about how the counselors will be taking care of my kids. I shouldn’t worry because I already know the ins and outs of summer camp and that should give me some relief. I’m here to tell you…. “Not Really”.

This blog is a test. It’s a test that comes from my own insecurities as a mother sending my “babies” off to camp to be cared for by counselors who I do not know and are not influenced by me. It’s a test to see if I can use my experiences, knowledge, and relationship with the Executive Director to help support other parents who might also be even the slightest bit anxious about their kids going off to camp.

This blog started from an email conversation I had with Jody a few months ago. Basically asking him how I was going to let my kids go to camp? I knew I had to let them go, every parent must let their child go at some point. And it’s a very unreasonable feeling for me to have considering I have NEVER had trouble leaving my kids in nurseries or with baby sitters. I look forward a lot of times to having space and time away from my kids. But for some reason sending them off to camp is something altogether different.

I started having these unfamiliar feelings as a Camp Director beginning to relate to parents on a different level now that I had my own kids. I could only imagine how difficult it would be to drop your kids off for a week and trust ME and the counselors not only for the physical well being of your child, but their mental well being as well. I took that very seriously. I started to impress upon my staff those very thoughts. These children are someone’s “babies” that you’re being trusted with!

Emma went to Girl Scout Camp a couple years ago and it was hard to leave her. I wasn’t allowed to take her to her cabin and help her settle in. I literally handed her over to a strange counselor with an eager smile across her face. It was a very unsettling feeling that I did not have a hand in training these counselors on how to take care of my kid and the other campers as well. She came home, of course, having had a great time. But, I spent the week anxiously scanning picture after picture to see her smiling face. It was a very odd thing for me, this feeling of anxiety over camp. I LOVE camp and think every child needs to experience it multiple times.

Jody, after snickering at my anxiety, made a statement something to the effect of… “You know too much about Camp which is a gift. What can we do with this gift?” This, of course, leading to conversations about how to support other parents going through similar feelings. We came up with the idea of this blog to serve several purposes.

1. Gives parents a different insight to camp through a former Camp Director who has worked with Jody Oates in the past, trained camp staff, planned and implemented programming with children like yours in mind, and just as a mom.

2. Gives another avenue for parents to comment and give feedback. I’m here to answer questions and/or find the answers to the questions I can’t answer. I will be in direct contact with Jody during the course of the summer. I will be visiting camp each week to see how things are going. I can even give you some feedback on your child if you’d like. Just ask.

3. Gives the counselors and staff at Asbury Hills a unique perspective to the” parent experience” that other camp facilities do not have. How many other camps will give you, the parent, the opportunity to ask questions, give feedback, and let us know how things are going from your end?

It is my pleasure to be blogging. I look forward to hearing from you as your child got to Camp Asbury Hills and has the experience God intends for him/her to have. And who knows, maybe your child will become great friends with one of my two as well!